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Make Bunny and Bear Love Not Porn!

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Imagine my delight when five new videos from MLNPstars BunnyFucksBear appeared in my curatorial inbox! Popular amongst our members ever since they made their debut in Summer 2013 with some messy, loving #downtown action, Bunny and Bear haven’t shared anything new…until now. And, I gotta say – I think this recent flood of gushing, ravenous, and loving #realworldsex more than makes up for such a long absence.

When Bunny and Bear go at it they Go. At. It. Hard. From what I’ve seen so far, there really are no half measures when it comes to Bunny and Bear’s #realworldsexlife – either there’s spit running down Bunny’s arm, icing all over the place, and a million worshipful ‘I love yous’ uttered by Bear or it didn’t really happen.

And that’s the thing I love the most about these two – Bunny really does fuck Bear – and Bear returns the favor by worshipping the ground she gushes on. Together, these two show us what loving and communicative fucking looks like – a lot less like #pornworldsex and a lot more like real life:

After Bunny gives Bear an extremely messy #downtown treat, Bear plants a long, appreciative kiss on her lips. In the middle of a passionate romp, Bear politely tells Bunny he would like to come on her and she simply says that, no she would not like that tonight, and so he doesn’t. Bunny goes all out baking a cake and setting the scene for a kitchen seduction, which includes having a hair elastic on hand for when things get really heated – which basically blows Bear’s mind because even after 6 years together he still can’t believe how lucky he is to be with Bunny, let alone that she would come so prepared to please him.

Every time I watch BunnyFucksBear’s videos I find more reasons to appreciate their brand of raw, messy, honest, communicative and loving #realworldsex and I hope you will, too!

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Madam Curator

MakeBunnyFucksBearLoveNotPorn:

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Bunny calls Bear into the kitchen for advice on frosting a cake but it’s really just an excuse to get her adoring partner to lick her all over. Things quickly heat up in this #inthekitchen romp, with Bear kissing every inch of the accomplished chef. Making good use of a kitchen counter that is the perfect height for sex, Bunny and Bear prove how sweet and fun domestic downtime can be! With a finale that sees our lovers collapsing on the kitchen floor, this equally hot and adorable video is an instant classic.


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While engaging in one of their favorite kinds of foreplay, Bear showers Bunny with compliments while taking photos for their tumblr. Wearing nothing but a bodystocking that’s been pushed around her ankles, Bunny enjoys some #clitastic #metime before begging Bear to join her for even more mutual fun. These two have the chemistry and enthusiasm of the honeymoon phase mixed with the knowledge of each other’s bodies that can only come with time. Match made in heaven!


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Nothing says, “I love you,” quite like letting your partner lay back while you do all the work! In this extremely intimate video, Bunny gives Bear a #yummy treat that I don’t think he’ll be forgetting anytime soon. Oozing with enthusiasm, Bunny clearly knows what Bear likes, and makes sure to take him all the way there. Finishing the video with a grateful explosion, this video will leave you fantasizing about the next time you’ll be able to give or receive some great #downtown action!


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Bear can’t keep his hands (or mouth) off of Bunny’s hot bod, and who can blame him? He treats her to some delicious #downtown #clitastic time while she provides a helping hand to make sure she’s getting all of the sensations that she wants! He then flips her over for a super sultry #frombehind, before collapsing on top of her for some tender kisses. BunnyFucksBear has definitely mastered the delicate art of being SUPER hot and also making you feel all of the gooey feels!


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Bear describes this video as capturing “one of those blowjobs that you never forget” – and I can totally see why. Wearing two braids and adorable glasses, Bunny looks super cute before delivering a delightfully messy and passionate #yummy present for Bear! It’s not long before Bear plants a long, appreciative kiss on Bunny’s lips, making this is a super #realworld treat that will have you salivating.


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In their first, and previously only video for MLNP, BunnyFucksBear gave us a sizzling peek into their #realworldsexlife with a super hot #downtown video that left us wanting so much more. This instant #realworldsex hit was featured in both WeMeggidoStyle’s top videos AND Loveandlasagna’s favorites! To quote LoveandLasagna:

“This was one of the first MLNP videos we watched, and it shocked us, in a good way. Maybe we could call it a reality check, because it made us reflect on #realworldsex and realize that we were about to be part of it, and that it was something we wanted to do because we love each other and making love is beautiful, we’re beautiful, they’re beautiful, and fuck shame. Love must be always bigger than anything else.”


To learn more about Bunny and Bear, read Bunny’s blog post! Click here to see all of their videos in one place!



The Origin Story of Knight + Jade: how they began their journey together into the world of kinky fun

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By MLNPstars Knight + Jade


To begin we will take you back about 10 years ago to a warm summer in Central Canada. Boy meets girl the summer before another year at college. Boy and girl like the look of one another and begin the usual dating rituals. Before too long boy and girl start to get really into each other, but boy has a secret, he gets very turned on by latex and bondage, but how does he find out if girl is into it too?

Gently ease into it, and if she doesn’t run away or call the police, there could be potential for a few fantasies, thinks boy. So one evening, in the relative privacy of his parents’ basement, boy takes out a ball gag and handcuffs, and asked girl if she’s ok with trying them on? Trust and affection have been built on both sides, so girl agrees.

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Girl loves it, and not long after that initial evening, boy and girl start on their journey of exploration and learning together into the world of kinky fun. True love is found between these opposite people with like minds. Boy creates kinky monster out of girl, who soon comes to love it just as much as him.  

Time goes by and boy and girl soon become man and woman. Happy tidings come in the form of new life from the product of lots of great sex between man and woman. Together they embark on more journeys of life and the love grows stronger between them. The amount of fun kinky sex is lessened and the quickies are fun and exhilarating. But still behind those locked doors (far from the parents’ basements of years before) the kinkiness grows, the latex wardrobe expands (as money allows), as does the experience in BDSM and their own individual style has been born and developed.

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Is it always extremely intense and hardcore? No. Is it always flawless even after all these years of practice? No. Is it fun and full of love, affection and a sense of adventure and sometimes hilarious, memorable moments? Yes.

As the years go by, girl and boy find their love of each other, and their secret desires for latex, bondage and great kinky fun continue to grow! Will it come to an end? Not if Knight + Jade can help it!


 

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Our most recent video showcases the different ways we play from one day to the next.

Sometimes Knight likes to play on top, and sometimes Jade prefers to take control. Other times we love nothing more than a quick intense romp with no bondage, no latex, just each other. It all depends on how we feel as a couple in the moment, or who’s will and desires are stronger that evening.

The videos are predominately done in the night hours as living with little ones requires us to be more discreet, but that doesn’t mean the passion is any less intense or erotic. It just needs a bit more planning, but quickies are always fun and spontaneous, and yet still on the down low. We love making videos for MLNP even if they are few and far between, but they are also for our own enjoyment (both erotic and certain ones that are not loaded are just plain good for a blooper reel). The MLNP community is a strong and passionate one and we are proud and happy to be a part of, even if we’re not always that active on Twitter! We wish everyone love and happiness in their own unique fun ways.


Love reading what our MLNPstars have to say? Head over to our MLNPstars speak section. To check out all of Knight + Jade’s deliciously #realworld #kinky videos, click here!


This CEO wants to build the ‘Khan Academy of Sex Ed’ / Fortune

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Written by Claire Zillman for Fortune. Originally published on June 16th, 2015.


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“If only every mid-life crisis could be so fruitful.

Cindy Gallop, the former chairman and president of Bartle Bogle Hegarty US, told the audience at the Fortune Most Powerful Women Summit in London on Tuesday that she left her job at the British advertising agency after 16 years when she turned 45 in 2005. She took stock, she said, and “felt it was time to do something different.”

She eventually launched MakeLoveNotPorn.com, a venture inspired—interestingly enough—by her experience dating men in their 20s. Through these intimate relationships, she realized that because of the reluctance to talk about sex openly, hardcore porn had become a default form of sex education. Her Ted Talk on the topic went viral. MakeLoveNotPorn.com aims to provide an alternative by serving as a platform that celebrates real-world sex and makes it shareable. The site depends on contributors for its library of real-world sex video, which viewers can rent and watch. Half of the revenue goes to people who submit the videos.”


Head over to Fortune to see the original post and watch the video! Make sure to catch Cindy’s TED talk that started it all if you haven’t already!


Make Free-spirited Love Not Porn!

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Happy Independence Day!

Today, in celebration of July 4th and all of our free-spirited MLNPstars, we’re bringing you 6 brand new videos to rouse your spirit, ignite your loins, and get the holiday weekend started off right!

Red, white, and true blue All-American couple Colin/Gray celebrate the birth of their nation with lake swimming, a cookout, and their first-ever outdoor quickie…AllenandtheJean and new friend, Sinn Sage, toast to the U.S.A. and #LoveWins by sharing Jean’s first ever #realworldlesbian sexcapade…SexKilledTheCat makes his MLNP debut with a #metime session that surprised him with its intensity…Knight+Jade flip the script in a loving and kinky romp that sees Jade taking charge…AllenandtheJean make their daring fantasies into reality behind closed doors…

MakingFreeSpiritedLoveNotPorn:

Colin/Gray

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Are these two adorably All-American or what? Celebrating the 4th of July by barbecuing at their favorite Lake, Colin and Gray are decked out in red, white and blue apparel – at least, for a little bit. Glistening and soaking wet from a dip in the lake, these two love birds take advantage of the fact that they’re the only ones around and engage in a quickie on a blanket in the woods. Shot home movie-style, this video captures the joyful, chill vibe you get during a day outside with your love. Featuring thirst-inducing shots of the lake, the barbecue, Gray posing in the nude under a tree and Colin changing into swim shorts, this video is a snapshot of a beautiful and erotically charged holiday day off.


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Canadian MLNPstars Knight + Jade are back right in time for Canada Day with an adorably kinky video featuring lots of communication, latex, a riding crop, and toys. Taking a little time at the beginning to discuss their desires for this particular evening, our couple of 10 years show us how ‘talking about it’ beforehand can be SUPER hot and effective! After some delicious simultaneous #downtown action, Jade takes charge and climbs on top of restrained and ball-gagged Knight, who more than loves it. Featuring lots of spanking, kissing, cuddling, power play and enthusiasm, we were thrilled by this latest video from latex-clad super couple, Knight+Jade, and we think you will be too!

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While on vacation, Jade sneaks into the hotel bathroom where Knight is taking a shower, and convinces him to partake in a bit of #metime as she films, Always up for a good time, Knight obliges and gives her (and us) a #realworldsex show from behind the glass. Steamy in more ways than one, this is a super fun peek into Knight + Jade’s joyful sex life. Jade can’t get enough of Knight and Knight loves that Jade is so into it. Culminating in an explosive climax, this video had Knight, Jade and probably you feeling all kinds of YES!YES!YES!


AllenandtheJean

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AllenandtheJean show us how unbelievably hot it can be to explore a fantasy in real life. Blindfolding Jean so that her other senses are heightened and cuffing her hands behind her back, Allen has his spank-tastic way with his sweetie. As a way of showing her appreciation for Allen’s excellent topping skills, Jean rewards him with a delicious #downtown treat before they explode in unison on the leather divan. Featuring a tuxedo, lacy black lingerie, a girdle, a collar, a silver chain AND handcuffs, this light BDSM interaction between an enthusiastically consenting married couple will inspire you to whip out (heh) a prop or two of your own!

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As a toast to the good, ol’ U.S.A. and #LoveWins, Jean shares her first ever #realworldlesbian sexcapade! Sinn shows Jean the #realworldladysex ropes as Jean goes further than ever before, devouring every inch of Sinn’s body, while Allen films the whole thing in black and white. Very clearly EXTREMELY attracted to each other, these two roll around the bed, in between moaning, gasps, giggles, #downtown play and lots of kissing and groping. Since this is only part one of this sweltering rendezvous, I can’t wait to see what part two will bring!


SexKilledTheCat

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Brand new MLNPstar SexKilledtheCat is a total cutie who, prior to making this video, had never filmed himself before! Originally intended for an online lover, he made this video to show her how he pleasured himself while he thought of her. This ultimately #messy #metime video is super sensual and fun to watch! Who doesn’t love watching someone express their sexuality so authentically? Welcome, SexKilledtheCat!


Feeling randy and ready to make the most of your holiday weekend? Show us what you got by filming and then sharing your #realworldsex on MLNP.tv! I’ve got a couple of ideas for you below:

Do you love #realworldsex #inthekitchen? How about outdoors #inthewild? Share a video of your countertop antics and alfresco sexytimes to be included in an upcoming edition!


Girl Crush: Jean’s first #realworldsex encounter with a woman

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By MLNPstar Jean of AllenandtheJean.


Jean had always considered herself heterosexual. She liked men. Eventually, after dating a bit, she decided she specifically liked Allen. They fell in love and got married. End of story.

Or was it?

Jean had girlfriends. Sure. Girls, who were friends. Acquaintances, casual friends, work friends, close friends, and even best friends. But she never had a girl become more than that to her. One day, all that changed, and she had to rethink everything. 

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She never went looking for a sexual relationship with another woman. Certainly Allen joked how fun it might be to have a “threesome” – don’t all straight men have this little fantasy at some point? She laughed it off. Sure, there were nights, out dancing, when everyone was deep into their cups, flirting, laughing, and kissing, but it was innocent. It was just all in good drunken fun. The girls would kiss and caress more than the guys would. Because the guys usually liked to watch. They would watch, and smile, and Jean and her friend would put on a show, just to egg the guys on. But it didn’t mean anything, right? Their clothes would stay on, nothing indecent. Just the allure, the flirtatious fun, the bump and grind, the dip, the cozy familiarity that best friends have, and the occasional kiss on the lips.  But no tongue, right? Or what the heck? Once in while there was tongue, and it tasted so good, but it was just a tease. Wasn’t it? It was just night time. Night time mixed with wine. Wine, laughter, fun, and sexual energy. We were all sexual beings, weren’t we? We knew who was really going home with whom. By the morning light, all that craziness would fade. In the sober light of day, these feelings would not last. Right? 

But sometimes the ache, the longing, it didn’t fade. And the attraction blazed in the broad light of day.

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Allen and the Jean have no secrets from one another. They discuss. Everything. No topic is off limits.  Just complete honesty, respect, and transparency. That’s what makes their relationship so absolutely solid, strong, and bulletproof. And so Allen and the Jean started to think about it. To fantasize what these evenings might evolve into. How would it affect them? They decided what they would and wouldn’t do, or allow. Safe sex prevailed of course. Their open-mindedness, has led to some amazing opportunities. Over the years, there have been a few women, a lucky few, welcome into their bed. And afterwards? Allen and the Jean still had each other, and they could smile in remembrance of their adventures.

It is amazing, that feeling, watching your lover with someone else, or them watching you, and then all of you getting to be together. It was Just. So. Fucking. Hot! Incredibly Hot!

They met more and more people with this same mindset. Sex is not taboo everywhere. There are places, groups, and alternative lifestyle conferences where Jean could kiss all the girls she wanted, and did. Allen still likes to smile and watch. Sometimes he joins in, if all parties permit. If not, that’s okay too. Allen was totally okay with his wife’s newfound bisexuality. It just made their sex more passionate, and more intense. 

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Meet Sinn Sage. Sinn is a two-time AVN Award winner (2013 Best Girl-Girl Scene and 2015 All Girl Performer of the Year), has the most amazing, beautiful, spankable butt, and is honestly one of the most genuine and lovely spirits you could meet! Sinn and Jean met a few years ago at a conference. They were fast friends, always smiling, laughing, and giggling. Over the years they ran into each other and always seemed to end up kissing, whether it be in a hot tub, or in a pool. Jean really enjoys how Sinn French kisses. She consumes your mouth with a hunger and energy that cannot be denied. Jean and Sinn had an electrifying connection and great chemistry. So they decided to shoot a video of their first time together, for MLNP.tv. 

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The sex was SO hot, and lengthy, that by the end of their rambunctious playtime, both of Allen’s cameras overheated. Watch them explore each other and revel in their bodies as they finally unite in…

Jean Sinns & Love Wins Part 1


Check out all of AllenandtheJean’s super hot #realworldsex videos and the #lesbian tag on MLNP.tv! Explore the MLNPstars Speak section of our blog if you want to read more like this!


Make Colin/Gray Love Not Porn!

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In the seven short months since making their MLNP.tv debut, MLNPstars Colin/Gray have been pretty much tearing up the joint with their fun, creative, and downright steamy #realworldsex videos! Madly in love and in possession of a seemingly endless supply of artistic flair, the only thing stronger than their raging hormones and dynamite sexual chemistry is their obvious intellectual and emotional connection.

You know that couple that just get one other? The couple that love coordinating their outfits and finish each other’s sentences and that you’d maybe find annoying if only they weren’t so darn adorable and talented and well…hot? That’s Colin/Gray.

Whenever a new video from Colin/Gray pops up in my curatorial inbox I know I’m in for a treat. Not only have they taken MLNP.tv’s request for creative intro videos and just really run with it, they’ve also never lost sight of our mission of showcasing non-performative #realworldsex in all its messy, fun, unscripted glory. Watching Colin/Gray’s videos, I feel I’m really getting to know a #realworld couple, both through the fun scenarios they dream up together that reflect their mutual interests and the way that those scenarios melt away the moment they touch.

Whether it’s playing out an alien abduction fantasy in a stylized intro video or grinding together with a smooth, steady rhythm that can only come from lots of practice, it’s clear Colin/Gray make communication a huge part of everything they do. Plus I just love how when it comes time to drop the fantasy, they never cease to find creative ways to kiss and touch each other while their eyes practically roll back in their heads from the sheer amazement and bliss of simply being naked in the moment together.

Featuring 11 videos, including two brand new rounds of creative, mind-blowing #realworldsex, MakeColin/GrayLoveNotPorn is an edition that I can’t wait for you to check out!

MakingColinGrayLoveNotPorn…

I see green people with Colin/Gray

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Lately, Gray has been having bizarre wet dreams that star a green alien man seducing her while she sleeps. Maybe it’s the summer heat, or maybe there really is something out there? Watch as Gray goes about her normal sleep routine, and enters dreamland only to be met by what looks a lot like an alien version of Colin. Alien-Colin blows Gray’s mind, and she wakes up wondering if it was a dream or if it really happened. Did it? See for yourself!


Colin/Gray at the nude beach

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In this brand new video from Colin/Gray, our lovers celebrate a rare day off together by heading to the nude beachAdmiring each other’s bodies in the sunlight, they get totally turned on by the fact that they’re naked in nature – because, let’s face it, there’s nothing like frolicking au naturel outdoors to make you feel like Adam and Eve. After showcasing their bodies, their love for each other, and the beauty of the lake, I was ready to book my ticket out West. Not wanting to disrespect the policies of the nude beach (admirable), they rushed home to consummate their adventures with an enthusiastic romp in the shower. Featuring their stunning camera work and editing, quirky personal touches (shower gloves) and inspiring and passionate sex, this is a soon-to-be classic.


Fourth of July with Colin/Gray

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Are these two adorably All-American or what? Celebrating the 4th of July by barbecuing at their favorite Lake, Colin and Gray are decked out in red, white and blue apparel – at least, for a little bit. Glistening and soaking wet from a dip in the lake, these two love birds take advantage of the fact that they’re the only ones around and engage in a quickie on a blanket in the woods. Shot home movie-style, this video captures the joyful, chill vibe you get during a day outside with your love. Featuring thirst-inducing shots of the lake, the barbecue, Gray posing in the nude under a tree and Colin changing into swim shorts, this video is a snapshot of a beautiful and erotically charged holiday day off.


Colin/Gray try a sex toy

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We’ve seen MLNPsuperstars Colin/Gray play strip chess, have a snowball fight, and figure out how to have hot sex with a cold sore but adding a sex toy into their already sweltering #realworldsexlife is brand new territory. Colin reveals he’s wearing the LELO TOR II couples’ ring after a hot make out with Gray and they definitely have a good time adding some vibration to the mix. Featuring their signature palpable connection, variety of positions and skillful editing, if you’re new to Colin/Gray or a fan already, you will definitely enjoy this video.


5 tips to stay sexy with a cold sore with Colin/Gray


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Having suffered from cold sore outbreaks since she was a child, Gray has learned to take something that used to embarrass her not only in stride but also as a prompt for being a little more creative with her sex life. Armed with her loving partner, Colin, and an arsenal of research, she shot this special video to show our community how something as seemingly un-sexy as a cold sore outbreak can be an opportunity to mix things up in the bedroom.


Stretchin’ with Colin/Gray

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Colin/Gray definitely didn’t let the winter keep them from being active! Clad in adorably matching work out gear, they do some at-home yoga but soon decide to employ those bendy abilities to some HOT #downtown action and extremely agile sex positions! If my yoga classes ended like theirs seems to, I might be a little more diligent about going.


Reading with Colin/Gray

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In this  video, MLNPstars Colin/Gray try their best to read in bed together. And, while they get an A for effort (well, actually, not really ;)) they soon find themselves distracted. And, on top of each other. And, going at it like nobody’s businessWith their socks still on. Young, androgynous, and decked out in matching monochrome underthings, it’s clear Colin/Gray’s lust for each other comes from a place deep inside.


Chess with Colin/Gray

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Adorable MLNPstars Colin/Gray are known for their hot, hipsterrific #realworldsex. Stirred by a round of strip chess on the back porch, this video shows us what Gray likes to do when she wins. Although, from the looks of the #realworldsex that ensues, it’s safe to say both Colin and Gray come out winners in the end.


Colin/Gray get caught in a blizzard

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In this video, MLNPstars Colin/Gray delight us with a must-see trailer in which this adorable young couple play out the snowy, blizzard-like conditions and attendant emotions many of us on the East coast experience every winter. Then, just like someone coming in from the cold, they turn up the heat, peel off their clothes, and get into cozy #realworldsex mode. Experimenting with new camera angles that give us a great view of the way these two practically climb all over each other with lust, this video also sees some very slick underwear removal that impressed me so much I had to go back and watch it again.


Sci-fi campout with Colin/Gray

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Colin/Gray’s spacey adventure begins with yet another of this young duo’s signature playful free peeks, this one showing our pair on a sci-fi-themed bedroom camp-out. Displaying a sense of fun and frolic that easily transitions to intense desire and mind-blowing #realworldsex, colingray obviously share a sexlife that makes them feel out-of-this-world.


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In their MLNP.tv debut, then brand new MLNPstars Colin/Gray brought us a sweet, sensual, and clever #realworldsex session captured in a small space within the earshot of neighbours – quite the #realworldsex challenge! Embodying everyday excitement just the way we like it, in addition to turning us on, this video also had curatorial assistant, Ariel, and myself, marvelling at some of the ingenious positions employed. Three cheers for a growing community of MLNPstars, and a growing number of positions to try!


Can’t get enough Colin/Gray? Go follow their Tumblr! Have you fallen in love? You might also like Violet + Rye and bzandgloria! Inspired to share your own creative #realworldsex videos? Check out our how-to section!


If you’re thinking about sharing your #realworldsex vids online, look no further than MLNP.tv

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Written by MLNPstars Colin/Gray


Hi,

Colin/Gray have been a part of the MLNP.tv community for seven months now and it is a very fun and supportive part of our lives.

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We are inspired to make videos based on our daily interests. We are big nerds and like sci-fi, chess and reading, so you’ll see that in some of our videos. We also just like to play with/make sexy the irritating things (cold weather, cold sores, sore muscles). This gives us an excuse to collaborate on a funny backstory and sexy costumes and is a platform for us to work together on, talk about and show what we believe is important in relationships (communication, consent, together time, alone time, and humor).

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If you are thinking about sharing your #realworldsex vids online, look no further than MLNP.tv. We have had nothing but good feelings and feedback from submitting our work here, and it is a small enough site where chances are, your conservative aunt and uncle are not going to find you!

When making videos, I’ve learned that sometimes you don’t need all the different camera angles. Good lighting and one good camera can be all you need! Also Adobe Premiere, patience and having a good sense of humor doesn’t hurt.

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We both are using the earnings on rent, food, practical things, etc but when the next payment round comes up, we want to save it away for a cheap vacation somewhere! Mmm, the Yucatan Peninsula is calling me right now– of course we will shoot travel vids for all of you!

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We’ve been planning to make an MLNP.tv mini-series called Sex Work about our many day jobs and fantasies we can have at them to make them more interesting. We’re also interested in shooting more videos on location because its so amazing seeing two bodies surrounded by a beautiful landscape! But of course, every video we make has to have our signature playful and heavily curated aesthetic.

Do you like what we do? Have a request for an upcoming video? We want to hear from you! Email us at Gray.knc@gmail.com

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Love,

Colin/Gray

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P.S. MLNP is a very supportive, caring community who has never stopped promoting our work. Ever since we joined in December 2014, we’ve been in the NYC PFF ‘15, reviewed a toy and were featured for the Refinery 29 x MLNP collab, and were written about in an article on BUSTLE and slutever. We love the team at MLNP and the viewers who rent our videos. Together you make our experience with filming our fun, quirky, creative, steamy sex really exciting and fulfilling.


Go see all of their videos in one place in MakeColin/GrayLoveNotPorn! Does this impossibly adorably duo have you feeling inspired to shoot a #realworldsex video? Hell yes! Email us at curators@makelovenotporn.tv


Make Sweltering Love Not Porn

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What do we do in the height of mid-summer when the temperature soars along with our libidos? We MakeSwelteringLoveNotPorn!

With 6 brand new videos, this edition may not cool you down but it will definitely heat you up!

Couplenextdoor tease and please us with a sensual, cinematic round of #realworldsex…Redfox show off the sexy, #clitastic position they’ve been enjoying of late…LoveandLasagna delight us with a delicious exchange of downtown action AND a passionate, riding romp in front of their cats…Doris_Dawn plays with a new gadget to deliver an artistic take on POV…Jean of AllenandtheJean and Sinn Sage give in to lesbian lust

MakingSwelteringLoveNotPorn:

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Couplenextdoor bring the heat with a video that combines their excellent cinematic eye with undeniable chemistry. Featuring a beaded necklace that gets incorporated into a festive #downtown and #handy treat, this sensual celebration of the New Year and each other is a thrill to watch.


Redfox

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Mrs. Redfox was thinking about how they hadn’t filmed a video in a while, so she decided to surprise Mr. Redfox by setting up a camera by their bedside. Mr. Redfox can’t keep his hands off of his wife and her sultry lingerie, and teases her until she just can’t take it anymore. Indulging him in a delicious #downtown treat, followed by lots of grinding and YES!YES!YES! time, this video shows off a innovative new position that you’ll want to try ASAP!


Loveandlasagna

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Mexican MLNPstars LoveandLasagna delighted us this week by submitting two brand new scorching #realworldsex videos! Making food and making love are two of Loveandlasagna’s favorite activities, and this video shows off the magic that can happen when you combine the two at once! Engaging in a simultaneous #downtown treat, these lovebirds know how to make each other feel amazing.

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Loveandlasagna revel in the sunlight and each other’s bodies. Adorably tender and always bursting with passion, Loveandlasagna’s #realworldsexlife seems to only be getting better with time. After lots of tender kissing, Miel rides her honey to an explosive finale. They then wrap themselves around each other for a super cuddly come down.


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Lucky for us, Jean and Sinn Sage decided to share part two of their scorching tryst with us. If you liked their first #realworldsex video, you will absolutely love the second part of this explosive encounter as they continue to explore each other’s bodies. Sinn tossesJean around the bed and they engage in lots of #backdoor action, #downtown combos and grinding. This video is absolutely erupting with lots of passion, skill and desire, and shows the crazy hot things that can happen when you explore a fantasy in real life.


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Doris described her latest submission as having an “art house quality” to it, and I couldn’t agree more. After buying a pair of glasses with a teensy camera inside one of the lenses, Doris and Don have fun filming each other and providing the voyeur with a real sense of being there. Doris dances around the room in the nude before lavishing Don with lots of kisses and a #yummy treat. The camera/glasses hack really makes it feel like you’re there in this super intimate and raw new video.


New to MLNP.tv and dying to share your own sweltering #realworldsex? Check out our how-to section for tips!



The process of discussing and sharing our thoughts with each other developed into a sexual candor and openness that was both illuminating and naughty

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Written by MLNPstars couplenextdoor.


When my husband texted me at work and it read, “They liked our video.”

“What video?” I thought to myself. It took a few seconds before I realized what he was talking about. Then it occurred to me…

“I’m in a sex video on the internet.”

There was a subtle wave of nervous anxiety working its way up the back of my neck. A sensation that I usually get when I’ve forgotten something important or been taken off guard, but with it there was also this awkward sense of uncertain excitement. The thought that my private and intimate world, a part of my life never spoken about and shared with only one other, my husband, my lover, now exposed made my heart race. I visualized the door to my bedroom wide open and a lineup of strangers beginning to form down the hallway.

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We finally agreed to take the plunge a few months ago and at the time I don’t remember there being one reason in particular that convinced me we should do it among the several that would suggest it might be a bad idea.

I was more at ease after watching some of the submissions and realized that MLNP was this organic, grassroots-like venue for everyday people to openly express their love and sexuality in a non-judgemental environment.What finally motivated me was knowing that in some small way I have an opportunity to be a catalyst of cultural change, to contribute to a movement in defiance of the patriarchal standards and misogynistic mindset of commercial porn. Don’t get me started on what I think of porn! But this does seem a rather extreme form of protest.

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Being compensated by the community and not the website directly was an interesting and novel idea as well as and a good way of measuring acceptance and interest.

My one reservation was being recognized.

The process of discussing and sharing our thoughts with each other developed into a sexual candor and openness that was both illuminating and naughty. This little secret became our inclusive project, a mutual collaboration that reconstituted our awareness of each other and with it a renewed sense of desire. There was a different quality to our “sexy time.” We started reserving more time for ourselves, mindfully preparing for our encounters that might include some clothing or accessories to enhance the ambience. Brief showers turned into leisurely soaks in the tub, sometimes followed by a relaxing erotic massage, spontaneously beautiful interludes that transformed an otherwise normal, ordinary day into an eventful experience.

At some point in my life I started to accept that life doesn’t stand still.  Everything is subject to change and uncertainty has had more of an influence on my life than I can account for. Just when things looked like they were falling into place, when I started feeling comfortable and secure something unforeseen would come along and change everything. I used to believe that true happiness comes from pursuing comfort and being secure, and that change was something to avoid. Now my instincts tell me this isn’t true.

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I’ve always been comfortable and secure as a woman in a sexual sense. I’ve enjoyed a fulfilling sex life with no regrets or insatiable itch needing to be scratched (other than Dwayne Johnson). I see myself as a modest woman with firm moral boundaries, raised on the principle that a reserved and discreet woman will command more respect in both social and professional circles.  But unfortunately my discretion had evolved into unnatural restraint and secrecy. Forced by cultural and socioeconomic pressures we conceal our natural desires to protect our true self from being judged or exploited by others.  We believe it will be easier to maneuver in the world with a disguise.

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If you could read my mind you’d see that I’m just like most other women, young at heart and with a healthy and active sexual imagination. But in all seriousness, the idea of having my sexual exploits recorded on video and then seeing it posted on the web would have been my worst nightmare imaginable.

My common sense tells me that I have nothing to be ashamed of.

What is it about being exposed and naked that is so terrifying?

Why should I be afraid of others seeing what I really am?

Is it because I’m a woman that I fear I’ll be misjudged?

Maybe it’s from my unconscious perception of what others think of me…

In an instant I’m untethered from my familiar world.

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This mysterious ambivalence, this unfamiliar but exhilarating sense that I’m engaged in something on the margins of right and wrong, of danger and liberation.

At this moment I am wide awake, shaken from my slumbering existence.

My mind releases its grip on who I am…….permitting a glimpse of what I might be.

Anticipation mingled with uncertainty……..

All of this passes in a brief moment.

And then I reply, “I’m nervous.”


Go rent couplenextdoor’s explosive MLNP debut and make sure to check out their latest video! We can’t wait to see what else you have in store, couplenextdoor!


7 Reasons To Watch Colin/Gray On Make Love Not Porn, Because These Sex Videos Promote Communication, Consent, And Role Equality / BUSTLE

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By Rachel Sanoff for BUSTLE. Originally published on July 9th, 2015.


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“For many people, internet porn is their first introduction into sexual activity, thus forming a lot of the expectations we have when we first become sexually active. But what does that mean when most mainstream porn is not diverse? It does not feature gender or racial diversity, does feature completely hairless actors, and focuses on male ejaculation and orgasm.
Thankfully, we have MakeLoveNotPorn.tv combatting these detrimental mainstream tropes within adult entertainment. Rather than promoting censorship or stigmatization, Make Love Not Porn provides an alternative to erotic entertainment by only featuring user-generated content that celebrates #realworldsex. #RealWorldSex refers to videos that portray diverse bodies and sexualities, communication and consensual behavior, condom and lube usage, sexual education, and all of the funny, awkward moments that happen during real life sexual encounters.
Over the past seven months, Colin/Gray (or Colin and Gray), a real life heterosexual couple who have been partners for three years, have taken Make Love Not Porn by storm. Their creative plots, sexual chemistry, comfort and familiarity with each other, unique, fun personalities, and “intellectual and emotional connection” have quickly turned them into site favorites.

Make Love Not Porn recently released an edition entitled MakeColin/GrayLoveNotPorn to provide even more videos produced by the humorous couple. Besides the obvious love and passion shared by Colin/Gray, here are seven more reasons to check out their work:

1. Their Videos Have A Mission To Promote Healthy Relationships, Consent, Communication, And Role Equality

While Colin/Gray’s videos are clearly fun explorations into pleasure and sexuality, as Sarah Beall (MLNP’S Madam Curator) writes, “they’ve… never lost sight of showcasing non-performative #realworldsex in all its messy, funny, unscripted glory.” Colin/Gray recognize that portraying their sex lives in an honest, consensual, creative, and #realworld way can have a greater impact than just entertainment. They write that producing MLNP videos creates a “platform for us to work together on, talk about and show what we believe is important in relationships (communication, consent, together time, alone time, and humor).”
They actively challenge tired, mainstream porn tropes like ridiculous plots, graphic ejaculation scenes (or “money shots”), and sexualized represntations of gender inequality. Gray writes, “I am on top as much as Colin is and same goes with oral sex. In our public and private lives we want it to be apparent that we have a healthy, consensual relationship.”

2. Their Sexuality Includes All Of the Complex, Weird, Humorous, Unique Parts Of Their Personalities

Since Colin/Gray are avid readers, chess players, and sci-fans, they incorporate those parts of their lives into their videos, which demonstrates that open sexuality does not take away from or lessen your personhood. Rather, your personality enhances your sexuality. Whether the scene involves Colin dressed as an alien in a dream sequence, takes place in a sci-fi themed bedroom, features a game of strip-chess, or begins with each of them reading in bed, their playfulness, trust, and humor are evident.

Colin/Gray celebrate that sex can be funny, and a shared sense of humor often makes sex a lot more fun. Humor motivates a lot of their video plots, and they are planning a mini-series called Sex Work, which is “about our many day jobs and fantasies we can have at them to make them more interesting.”

 


Head over to BUSTLE to read the original article and check out all of Colin/Gray’s videos to see what all the buzz is about!

 


Make Magnificent Love Not Porn!

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Hello darling,

I’m thrilled to tell you that we’re hard at work putting together a BRAND NEW edition for next week! In the meantime and in honor of all of our new members from HBO, we’ve decided to put together an edition featuring some of our magnificent #realworldsex videos! Whether you’ve been with us since the beginning or just joined today, this amazing collection will charm the pants right off of you.

These 15 knock out videos feature delicious #downtown action, delightful #metime, #kinky, #queer, #standing #realworldsex and oh, so much more. The one thing that they all have in common is that they’re all examples of absolutely magnificent #realworldsex that blew our minds, and are sure to thrill you too.

Does this collection have you feeling inspired? You should take advantage of all of our new traffic and share a video today!

Enjoy!


Fox+Aphrodite

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MLNPstars Fox+Aphrodite charm us with one of the sweetest, most romantic, and realest blow jobs we’ve ever seen! Soaking in a luxuriously big hotel bathtub after a holiday party, Aphrodite is more than happy to treat her lover to a messy orgasm, followed by some ADORABLE bathtub talk about naps, baths, and how much they love each other. (Seriously, you need to watch their intro video!). Sweet, simple and mind-blowing all at the same time, you can tell this is an amazing evening they won’t soon forget.


Doris_Dawn

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One thing we love about Hungarian marrieds, Doris_Dawn, is that they never shy away from a sexy challenge. In this impressive and athletic video, they shun the bedroom in favor of stand-up #realworldsex on the parquet floor. And, Doris even leaves her heels on! Happy and giggling and flushed with pleasure, I think even these MLNPstars are amazed by their chemistry and stamina, something they’ve no doubt honed during all their years together.


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Bless Violet+Rye for giving Madam Curator what she wants without even having to ask! In this video, something so rarely given its due in #pornworldsex – I’ll call it the toytime assist – is brought into well-deserved focus. Because, who doesn’t like a helping hand while laying down on the floor with your favorite toy? Bonus: erotic shots of coffee because, this is Violet+Rye guys, come on.


Lily Cade

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Lily cast Nikki Darling in her film Lesbian Lock-up and invited her to stay at her place in LA before the shoot. Thinking it would be a good idea to get to know each other’s bodies and turn-ons before having #pornworldsex, they decide to have #realworldsex and record it for MLNP.tv. Lily shows Nikki her favorite lube and Nikki lets Lily turn her into a human pretzel on the couch while they test out a new strap-on. We’re not surprised when Lily says, “we hit it off so well that we ended up hooking up again, off camera, and getting no sleep before shooting the movie the next day!”

 


Modesty Ablaze

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On holiday in Greece (just writing that makes me jealous) Modesty Ablaze and her husband relax and soak up some rays by the pool. It’s not long before Modesty starts feeling hot and bothered in a good way and suggest she and hubby retire to their pool-adjacent room for some afternoon delight! What follows is a titillating AND informative DIY kink session in which mistress Modesty dominates her more-than-willing sub with a series of household items that double as tools of erotic torture.


Colin/Gray

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Adorable MLNPstars Colin/Gray are known for their hot, hipsterrific #realworldsex. Stirred by a round of strip chess on the back porch, this video shows us what Gray likes to do when she wins. Although, from the looks of the #realworldsex that ensues, it’s safe to say both Colin and Gray come out winners in the end.


 Richard Coyote

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In MLNPstar Richard Coyote’s second solo #realworldsex video he flies through space, indulging in some silly, out-of-this-world metime. Never one to leave home without his pink cape, he fantasizes of soaring through the universe in one of our most imaginative and playful #realworldsex ever.


Corkle

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After finding out that lovesurfsing had mentioned her in an amazing blog post, Corkle decided to do a little exploring and fell head over heels for the man behind the words! Using his songs as the backing track to her newest #metime video, Corkle fangirls-out for lovesurfsing’s music in one of the most honest and vulnerably raw #metime videos we’ve ever seen. If you’ve ever had a crush on someone, you will absolutely relate to and adore this video.


Magic Lovers

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Not for the faint of heart, Magic Lovers’ delirious love making gives new meaning to the expression hot and heavy! Sensual and intense, with an oral fixation and penchant for backdoor exploration, these two will whip you into a frenzy, during a train trip to the Italian countryside.


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Featuring multiple cameras, riding crops, 2 GoPros, and a whoopie cushion, this video also includes the sentence, “Remember what you said the first time you gave me a rim job? It was, ‘where have you been all my life?!’” Celebrating their three month anniversary with nearly three times the amount of camera equipment, this video bursts with contagious sexual energy, a crazy connection, and similar sexual appetites making it NOT one to be missed.

 


Annie Ochs

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Annie Ochs is all dressed up with nowhere to be except right there on her bed, riding her toys like she would her favorite lover! Donning a leather pencil skirt, rhinestone bra and suggestive choker, she plays with herself and her new camera in a way that is just mesmerizing to watch. #Metime at its best.


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Excited for a night on the town, AllenandtheJean get all dressed up and head to the club. Already turned on by the prospect of what lies in store for them once they return home, the dance floor’s hypnotic beats and their gyrating bodies prove to be so overwhelming they decide to hit the VIP room and finally do to each other what they’ve been dying to do all night.


Redfox

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From devouring their previous videos, you’ve likely noticed that the Fox in Redfox loves getting dressed up before getting down. Just in time for Halloween, watch this darling couple get into spooky Halloween spirit with Fox donning a sexy devil costume, complete with naughty scepter – which to our delight gets used for more than just scaring away sinners! Then, watch these two ditch the costume like a couple of horny devils and share a romp on the living room couch.


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#realworldsex is funny. If you can’t laugh at yourselves when you’re having sex, when can you? Chubylovemaking deliver their very own brand of comedy, with a name they coined themselves – oralmor: oral sex + humor.  I laughed till I came.


EAHeartXO

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In a now classic #realworldsex video, EAHeartXO and her long distance lover start a weekend getaway by playfully implementing a “no penetration” rule on the first night. Working each other into a frenzy with fingers, mouths, and plenty of spicy talk, you’re sure the revel in their explosive climax as well as the journey getting there. With its incredibly empowering display of hot-as-hell mid-life sexuality, as well as just remarkably embodied sexuality period this is a #realworldsex video I just can’t stop recommending. If you’re looking for sauciness, this is it.


Want to be a MLNPstar? YES!YES!YES! Email us at curators@mlnp.tv! XO


MLNPstar VonBettie opens up about the sexual journey that led her to MLNP.tv

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You might have noticed the mouth-wateringly-hot videos that dynamite new MLNPstar VonBettie recently shared as part of our MakeToytimeLoveNotPorn edition/collaboration with Refinery29, as well as our MakeAnywhereYouWantLoveNotPorn edition. In this blog post, this amazing queer MLNPstar opens up about the sexual journey that brought her to MLNP.tv! Thank you, VonBettie – we’re grateful to have you as part of our community!


At some point in my life, probably in between figuring out monogamy and non-monogamy, I realized sex was a necessary asset to my overall well being both physically and mentally– that limiting it to any one type of sex(y) or person(s) felt suffocating. 

Since a young age I’ve always been curious about myself and the connections I could explore with others. I was growing up to be a sexual being. Over the years I experimented with myself and future lovers, have had trials and errors of in bedroom/out of bedroom romps and truly discovered my inner exhibitionist. I didn’t mind being in public places. I especially get turned on in cars! In fact, I remember losing my virginity behind a dumpster on a mattress… and it felt good and exciting to be doing these things. Natural, almost. 

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While navigating my way through different styles and learning to love myself in new ways, I looked to working at a strip club. It allowed me to develop my personal style and love my body in new ways. Having others appreciate me physically, helped me learn to appreciate myself. A common misconception is that there’s only one “type” of dancer. At the club I worked in, the women were big, tall, small, a little homely, stunning, alternative… you name it! There was everyone from the girl next door to the Las Vegas vixen…and they ALL had customers.

I was in awe, I developed crushes, I met SEX POSITIVE WOMEN. I wanted them and to be like them.

So I started practicing in my spare time on the stage and pole. I auditioned during waitress nights and eventually left that club and moved onto a new one as a full time dancer. I loved it. I loved the environment; rich, full and drenched in sexuality. Giving men lap dances even if I didn’t sleep with them in my personal life was so fulfilling. I could write a whole short story on my club experiences but I’ll just leave it at that. 

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So naturally, dancing was my gateway drug. I also became interested in modelling, then in being a peepshow girl, and finally I became involved in porn. I told myself that I wasn’t going to make sex work a full time career. I didn’t want to be someone that needed to hustle that hard to make my rent or support myself. I wanted to work but not hustle. So I kept sex work low-key and shared it only with people I trusted. Mostly those who are indie or queer oriented.

Through years and years of self exploration and balancing my blue collar life (I work as a wildland firefighter) with my sex positive life, I’ve managed to create amazing connections and experiences with beautiful people, including my now partner who supports me wholeheartedly. At this point in my life I don’t have the “stigma paralysis” I once did about certain people finding out. Now I feel confident I could sit anyone down and discuss why they should be more understanding or respect my choices in doing whatever it is I choose to do and better educate them. 

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I found out about MLNP through networking on Twitter. I saw an opportunity and took it. I’m kind of an opportunist. I just know if I don’t create these experiences for myself they may never happen. “No guts, no story.”

So MLNP fell into my lap and I’m really happy it did! I even ran into Madam Curator at the Feminist Porn Awards in Toronto, Canada by chance and she recognized me before I’d even known who she was outside of emails.

This site is exactly what I like in a sexual outlet. I am plugged into multiple other sites and this one equally allows me to share my own fantasies — #realworldsex vs acting out someone else’s porn fantasy. I’ve definitely learned over the years that there is certainly something for everyone porn/erotica wise, but seeing it portrayed by the minds of someone who you can relate to in everyday life makes it feel less bizarre and more attainable. Like, “Oh, you like rolling around in spaghetti while getting anally fucked and reading Harry Potter, too?” 

*high five*  and the world is a better place. 

So thank you MLNP Community! I look forward to sharing myself and pleasing you from afar. 


Can’t get enough? Check out VonBettie’s #realworldsex videos here and follow her on Twitter!


Make Exploratory Love Not Porn

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This week’s edition is all about sexual exploration!

Whether it’s trying out a brand new toy (or two) for the first time like VonBettie, getting to know a new lover like Modesty Ablaze, daring to discover just how multi-orgasmic your partner is like WinnerWinner, teasing yourself and an online admirer till neither of you can take it anymore like SexKilledtheCat, carefully wielding a new strap-on like Lily Cade and Nikki Darling or even venturing into imaginary outer space for some out-of-this-world #metime like Richard Coyote, this plucky collection of videos will turn you on to the thrill of getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new!

We’re committed to fostering a diverse community on MLNP.tv and the truth is we’re still far from having a level of racial, gender, and sexual diversity that we can truly be proud of. We are actively working to ensure that our submissions represent a wider range of folks from different backgrounds and with different proclivities, and we’d love your help putting the call out to anyone you think would be a great MLNPstar in this context – but until then we’re taking this opportunity to highlight some of the wonderful MLNPstars who through generously sharing their #realworldsex on MLNP.tv are helping us work toward our goal of greater diversity without tokenizing or fetishizing.   

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VonBettie

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VonBettie’s girlfriend can’t seem to keep her eyes or the camera off of her! Fresh from a hot shower, VonBettie quickly spots the cucumber GF, Ember, thoughtfully laid out for her on the kitchen counter and quickly decides to engage in some eco sex action, co-starring the cucumber and her trusty Hitachi magic wand. Sultry, hot, and also super sweet, this #inthekitchen romp is unlike anything we’ve seen at MLNP.tv! Watch VonBettie tell the story in her intro video below:

vonbettietoyIn her first video for MLNP.tv, VonBettie tries out the tiny vibrating powerhouse, the JimmyJane Form 2. Shot by her girlfriend in their bedroom, this uber intimate #realworldsex video captures the sexplosive combo of getting to feel your partner AND a vibrator. With a lot of verbal and #handy encouragement from her camerawoman, Von Bettie builds up to an eruptive orgasm. YES!YES!YES! indeed.


 Richard Coyote

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Tall, adorable and delightfully queer, Richard Coyote made his MLNP.tv debut with a #realworldsex video of him making love to himself. Taking time to conjure up memories of lovers in his mind, he shows us that a session flying solo (in a cape no less) can be extremely satisfying.


Lily Cade

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Lily cast Nikki Darling in her film Lesbian Lock-up and invited her to stay at her place in LA before the shoot. Thinking it would be a good idea to get to know each other’s bodies and turn-ons before having #pornworldsex, they decide to have #realworldsex and record it for MLNP.tv. Lily shows Nikki her favorite lube and Nikki lets Lily turn her into a human pretzel on the couch while they test out a new strap-on. We’re not surprised when Lily says, “we hit it off so well that we ended up hooking up again, off camera, and getting no sleep before shooting the movie the next day!”

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Featuring multiple cameras, riding crops, 2 GoPros, and a whoopie cushion, this video also includes the sentence, “Remember what you said the first time you gave me a rim job? It was, ‘where have you been all my life?!’” Celebrating their three month anniversary with nearly three times the amount of camera equipment, this video bursts with contagious sexual energy, a crazy connection, and similar sexual appetites making it a #realworldsex video not to be missed.


ModestyAblaze

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MLNPstar Modesty Ablaze is an everyday London Lady in the streets and a queen between the sheets! Not only that, she’s also one of the best examples of someone who takes long, languorous, staying-in #realworldsex sessions to the next level by indulging in regular sleepovers with her husband and one of their many lovers. In this video, we’re treated to an intense threesome with lover no. 36! From tender foreplay to an intense, no-holds-barred romp – Modesty shows us how to relax, let go, and really enjoy an evening (or entire weekend) in.

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In this second video featuring Lover No. 36 – who Modesty affectionately dubbed ‘The Main Squeeze’ – Modesty gives in to pleasure more than ever in a session that has both tender connection and intense shagging.


SexKilledTheCat

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Brand new MLNPstar SexKilledtheCat is a total cutie who, prior to making this video, had never filmed himself before! Originally intended for an online lover, he made this video to show her how he pleasured himself while he thought of her. This ultimately #messy #metime video is super sensual and fun to watch! Who doesn’t love watching someone express their sexuality so authentically?


Want more? You’d love Make Free-Spirited Love Not Porn or Make Spicy Love Not Porn! Thinking about becoming a MLNPstar? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at curators@mlnp.tv! xo


Choose your own #realworldsex adventure! At MLNP, you decide how little or how much exposure you want

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MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is all about celebrating and showcasing the #realworldsex everyday people have in their everyday lives. Most of our MLNPstars are folks who’d never filmed themselves having sex before hearing about MLNP and its mission, let alone thought about uploading sex videos to the interwebs. And so, to respect our MLNPstars privacy and boundaries – and to let sharing your #realworldsex truly be about pressure-free sexual exploration – how you choose to share your #realworldsex on MLNP.tv is totally up to you.

Choose your own #realworldsex adventure

Our MLNPstars are always given the option to remain totally anonymous. So, if you’re super into sexual liberation but not so much into showing off that pretty mug of yours, we’re all for wearing masks, and keeping faces in shadow or out of frame.

Another thing we’re all for is taking down your videos the minute you don’t want them up anymore. In the #realworld, people’s lives change and romantic relationships end, and so we’re committed to a no questions asked, ‘change of heart’ policy, where the second you decide you don’t want people around the world seeing your #morningsex anymore we take it down as quickly as possible.

Equally, we have just as many MLNPstars who are happy to show their faces, which is great, because we love to celebrate our MLNPstars and to put them forward for partnerships like the #realworldsex video sex toy reviews we recently did with Refinery29, where five MLNPstars (couples and singles) tried out brand new sex toys for the very first time on camera.

We also relish the chance to spread the word about how much we adore our MLNPstars via our frequent media coverage, like in the recent HBO docu-series, Sex On //, which profiled MLNP in a segment that rocketed site traffic and in particular brought plenty of new fans to the MLNPstars who appeared in the program.

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The more comfortable you are showing your faces and talking about sharing your #realworldsex on MLNP, the easier it is for us to promote you and the wonderful and important contribution you make to our site. For example, creative millennial MLNPstars, Colin/Gray, have always been thrilled about us getting their names out there, which has led not only to their being part of our Refinery29 partnership, but also to coverage on Bustle, .Mic and Slutever, along with their own featured edition, MakeColin/GrayLoveNotPorn.

As a result of the positive experience they’ve had with MLNP.tv and the publicity and fans they’ve gained, Colin/Gray have recently begun planning to take things to the next level by becoming affiliates of Good Vibrations and by submitting to other ethical sex video sites like I feel Myself and Beautiful Agony. We’re thrilled about this, because we want MLNP to create new possibilities for our attention seeking MLNPstars, while at the same time protecting the anonymity of those who would prefer to have their identities remain wholly or partially concealed.

As Gray of Colin/Gray puts it,

“MLNP is a very supportive, caring community that has never stopped promoting our work. We love the team at MLNP and the viewers who rent our videos. Together you make our experience with filming our fun, quirky, creative, steamy sex really exciting and fulfilling.”


And, by the way, there are still plenty of ways to get a little (or a lot) of attention and promote yourself, while still remaining anonymous:

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  • AllenandtheJean have over 10K followers on twitter without ever having shown their full faces in their #realworldsex videos or the thousands of photos they’ve shared with their adoring fans. By obscuring their faces in their videos, they were able to participate in HBO’s Sex On // while still remaining mysterious.

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  • Speaking of blogging, Rickat share lots of additional shots and musings on theirs, and have recently agreed to appear – masked – in an online mini-documentary about their experiences as MLNPstars!

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  • MLNPstars LoveandLasagna also regularly update their blog and twitter with pics from their sexy adventures and culinary explorations while generally shying away from big mainstream media coverage.

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  • And, finally, some MLNPstars like WeMegiddoStyle are happy to share their intro videos on our YouTube channel but prefer to cherry pick the press they participate in, like Sex On// and the NYC PFF.

As you can see, it’s completely up to our MLNPstars to choose their own sexual adventure and decide how much or how little exposure they’d like both on MLNP and in the press we receive. While at the moment, MLNP is tiny and bootstrapping, we’re actively working to raise funding to be able to build, market and grow our platform to the point where our MLNPstars will be as famous and celebrated as YouTube stars for the same reasons –  their authenticity, individuality, realness – and make just as much money. Our goal is to one day have your #realworldsex video reach 1 million rentals, and at $5 per rental with us giving you half that income, well, we’ll all be laughing. In the meantime – and when our golden YouTube level moment comes – we’re ready, willing, and eager to promote and celebrate our MLNPstars any way we can, and of course, always with permission.


MLNPstars hannable show us what great sexual communication looks like!

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This week we were thrilled to receive a brand new #realworldsex video from spicy, recently engaged MLNPstars, hannable. Then, imagine our surprise when we started playing the intro video and realized it was 18 minutes long – a new record length! Typically, we recommend that our MLNPstars keep it short and sweet with their ‘free peeks,’ but this one really knocked it out of the park. Here are a couple of reasons why:

1. After watching the intro video, you’ll feel like hannable are your new BFFs

You know when you’re good friends with a super hot couple and you’re like, ‘Damn, I wonder what kind of sex they have, I bet it’s really hot,’ and then you resign yourself to wondering about it forever? Me too. But this time it’s different, because by the time you’ve finished watching hannable’s new intro, and have seen how cute and raw and open they are, you’ll feel like they ARE that couple. I was smiling throughout the whole thing, especially when they talked about their fave parts of the #realworldsex they just had, and I LOVED that I was able to click right on over and watch said #realworldsex. When does that EVER happen? Literally never. We are the only place on the internet (in the world) where you are able to really get to know a #realworld couple and then click on over to watch them get it on. Which is rad as hell.

2. They’re super awesome at communicating about the sex that they want to have

How cute, clever, and downright generous is it that hannable designed an entire drinking game just to communicate with each other about their #realworldsex, and then FILMED IT in order to share that communication with you. Mrs. hannable, as she calls herself, is super turned on and into BDSM / kink stuff, which her honey will totally do with her, even though it isn’t his favorite thing of all time. I LOVE THIS FOR SO MANY REASONS. I adore that she feels so comfortable vocalizing and articulating her desires to her fiancee, and that he is so willing to try something new, because he’s so turned on by how into it she is. They ask each other about their favorite parts of the sex that they had, and they both just talk about how connected they feel to each other, which is like, the whole point a whole lot of the time, amirite?! I love that Mr. hannable is so down to try something that might be a little out of his comfort zone to please Mrs. hannable, how and she understands that just because he’s tried something once doesn’t mean he wants to do it all the time.

This is a great reminder that if you try something new in the bedroom, it doesn’t mean that you’re taking a holy oath to incorporate it into your normal sex routine. If you try something new and it’s great and hot and fun, sweet! More to have in your back pocket. If it’s weird, whatever, on to the next adventure! At least you tried it and now you know more about yourself and your partner and what you do and don’t like.

3. They show that great communication over time leads to knowing each other REALLY well

The whole point of the drinking game was that you had to drink if you didn’t want to answer a question. Spoiler alert: neither of them really ended up drinking, because not only are they each comfortable answering all of the questions (almost), they also step into the other’s shoes and test the waters by sweetly answering for each other while their honey offers feedback. Each question leads to even more open exploration and understanding.

4. They’re adorably in love

In between jokes, kisses and laughing, the energy and connection between these two is undeniable. Not only do they talk about the amazing sex that they have, they also talk about goals for their relationship. They’re already getting married (where’s my invitation?), but they also plan on getting their own place and being able to decorate it and thrive in it how they want to. They also mention future videos they want to shoot — including painting themselves and then doing it on a giant canvas and hanging it up on the dining room. I NEED THAT #REALWORLDSEX VIDEO LIKE I NEED WATER. Seriously can’t wait for that one. But above all, they just seem so incredibly connected and happy to be with one another and on the same page. It’s so amazing to be able to watch that kind of chemistry with two people, and extra incredible that they share such a vulnerable piece of their relationship– their first foray ever into any kind of BDSM, with MLNP.tv. I am truly honored and appreciative to have been able to see it, and hope that you will be as inspired by it as I was!


Well, what are you waiting for? Click here to watch part 1 of hannable’s foray into kinky #realworldsex. Loving this raw and honest intro video? You’ll likely dig WeMegiddoStyle‘s intros, too!



Make #inthekitchen Love Not Porn!

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Hey good lookin’ whatcha got cookin’? How about cookin’ up some #inthekitchen action to go along with this week’s sizzling spread of #onthetable, #againstthefridge, #besidetheskillet #realworldsex!

A surefire favorite of anyone who’s been lucky enough to have or have had a kitchen counter with a height perfectly suited for getting it on against – Hello, kitchen manufacturers, you need to factor this requirement into your designs! – this week’s edition, Make #inthekitchen Love, is all about getting out of the frying pan and into the fire and all other cooking and sex related puns.

Bunny bakes an entire cake just to get Bear to lick icing off of everything but said cake…VonBettie cools off and heats up by using a cucumber as her very own eco-sex toy…Redfox take advantage of a kid-free house and have an #againsthecounter quickie…LoveandLasagna get so turned on by the breakfast they’re making that they stop to make love instead…Colin/Gray seamlessly pair #realworldsex with breakfast, lunch, and dinner…Violet+Rye introduce their fave appliance (the hitachi magic wand) to their already gadget-filled kitchen…and much, much more!

Making#inthekitchenLoveNotPorn…

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VonBettie’s girlfriend can’t seem to keep her eyes or the camera off of her! Fresh from a hot shower, VonBettie spots the cucumber GF, Ember, thoughtfully laid out for her on the kitchen counter and quickly decides to engage in some eco sex action, co-starring the cucumber and her trusty Hitachi magic wand. Sultry, hot, and also super sweet, this #inthekitchen romp is unlike anything we’ve seen at MLNP.tv! Watch VonBettie tell the story in her intro video below:


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In this #inthekitchen video, Colin/Gray start out with a sizzling breakfast romp, indulge in a lakeside lunch picnic and re-enact an “X rated cooking show” for dinner. Despite what time of day (or meal) it is, these two can’t get enough of each other, which is what makes it so very delectable to watch! Colin takes full advantage of the counter being the perfect height to bend Gray over, and both halves of this dynamic duo stay super turned on by the view of each other cooking in the nude. This video will surely inspire to cook up some kitchen magic if your own!


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Bunny calls Bear into the kitchen for advice on frosting a cake but it’s really just an excuse to get her adoring partner to lick her all over. Things quickly heat up in this #inthekitchen romp, with Bear kissing every inch of the accomplished chef. Making good use of a kitchen counter that is the perfect height for sex, Bunny and Bear prove how sweet and fun domestic downtime can be! With a finale that sees our lovers collapsing on the kitchen floor, this equally hot and adorable video is an instant classic.


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With the kids away, Red and Fox realize that for the first time in a long time they have the house to themselves! Peeking around the corner of the living room while Red watches television, Fox beckons her husband to come enjoy a kitchen quickie. Red eagerly obliges, and soon has his wife half-dressed and pinned over the counter just the way she wanted.

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Is it just me or does it seem the lady half of Redfox has enough sexy negligees to inspire even a French woman to spice up her collection? This video by our fave Irish MLNPstars is a blue print for how to spend your evening after work: Step 1: Happen upon naughty wench outfit you forgot you had while looking for something else, Step 2: Put it on, get on the kitchen table and wait for your lover to come home. I think you can guess what happens in Step 3…


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Bless Violet+Rye for giving Madam Curator what she wants without even having to ask! In this video, something so rarely given its due in #pornworldsex – I’ll call it the toytime assist – is brought into well-deserved focus. Because, who doesn’t like a helping hand while laying down on the floor with your favorite toy? Bonus: erotic shots of their kitchen and coffee because, this is Violet+Rye guys, come on.

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To celebrate their first day off together in quite some time, Violet+Rye get naked, break out their “special occasion” bourbon and have #Smack-dabInTheMiddleOfTheKitchen #realworldsex. My favorite moment? Watching Violet’s spine arch more and more over the kitchen counter while Rye works a hitachi magic wand between her legs.


Rickat

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In their second ever stunningly cinematic video for MLNP, MLNPstars rickat heated things up in the kitchen! With a palpable passion for each other and a love of film editing, the result of this duo capturing their #realworldsex is really striking. Starting off in the kitchen with some hot #backdoor action, #toytime and sultry lingerie, this video packs a punch throughout the whole 37 minutes. Bonus: some delectable #downtown action and an extremely clever camera rig that gives us the unique privilege of watching them from right above their bed!


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These two will use any excuse to get it on. This time, they’re in the kitchen about to make breakfast but quickly decide that what they really want to do is make love. Not only will you marvel at their morning energy as they bounce from position to position, but you’ll love the way their bodies interlock to create a soundtrack of pleasure.


Wanna show off the magic you cook up in your own kitchen? Email us at curators@mlnp.tv! xo


So What Does a Real World Sex Curator Do All Day? She makes a living watching people have sex, but that’s not all. / Maxim

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Our very own superstar Madam Curator was just featured in an interview in Maxim! Enjoy!


By Ali Drucker for Maxim. Originally published on September 18th, 2015.


This woman literally has your dream job: Sarah Beall, the Montreal-based curator for the website Make Love Not Porn, makes a living staring at naked people all day. The site is dedicated to real world sex — that means no studios, no script, and no actors collecting a paycheck for fucking a stranger. Just real couples filming how they get busy, who want to share it with others. Beall was kind enough to sit down with Maxim and tell us about how she got her start, what her mother thinks of her job, and how she’s helping change the porn industry for the better.

So how the hell do you get a job as a porn curator?
It was sort of a job that was tailor-made for me. My official title is Madam Curator for Make Love Not Porn. I’ve always been really interested in people who are having an open, frank dialogue around sex. In school I had side projects: I was in a burlesque troupe, I sold sex toys, I was a photo cropper for a dating site, and the biggest thing that led me directly to my current job is that I was a longtime contributor and later editor of a zine called Lickety Split Smut Zine.

A smut zine? Go on…
It was a pansexual zine dedicated to sex positive expression and thought.

That’s a mouthful.
Well, the idea was just to have an alternative representation from the mainstream depictions of sex…I was curating art, writing, doing photoshoots, doing artistic design and stuff like that. One day I found out about MakeLoveNotPorn.com. I had no idea who ran it, but I thought the message was so cool: Real world sex and porn world sex were different.

Right. But how did that turn into a job?
So, I reached out to the site, run by Cindy Gallop, and I interviewed her. We just really, really hit it off. So she said, “Come to New York, let’s have coffee, let’s talk.” I brought copies of Lickety Split that I had been a part of to her place and she looked at them and she said…she basically explained to me the entire idea behind Make Love Not Porn, even though she was still designing it at the time. And I said you need a curator.

Direct!
Yeah, and about eight months later — it took her a little while to get funding — she called me and said, “I would like you to come on board.” So, it was interesting because I had been working towards this position for a very long time.

How so?
I always forget to mention this—in the eight months between learning about MLNP and getting hired, I took a job as a porn script writer in the mainstream adult film industry.

Wait, what?
You know, I started out producing scripts. I think I was writing like 30 porn scripts a month, or something like that.

Oh, my god, that’s like one a day. You never think of it being mass produced to that level.
I know. But how that’s translated into my role now. I can basically spot a porn cliché a mile away.

So what are the biggest porn clichés?
Well, let’s see. First of all, how porn is shot. This is one of the major things I look for when I’m curating real world sex. You know, porn is shot solely so that you know the viewer gets the best view of penetration at all times. The porn stars are working quite hard, but they’re not necessarily comfortable.

True.

Coming on command, like it’s a lot more hard work than people realize. So definitely positions and angles, obviously the facial — a guy coming on a woman’s face, that’s pretty much de rigueur.

Do you have a script that you wrote that you’re most proud of?
I do, yes. It’s not very PC. But one of the first scripts I wrote, it was sort of a political satire script. It was called Republicunts. And it was for a lesbian site. I wrote a script about a Republican candidate who was running on an anti-masturbation platform. Her slogan was “Masturbation is for sissy liberals.” And to their credit, the props people, for that scene actually made posters that read “Masturbation is for sissy liberals.”

See, it’s all in the details.
I was very pleased about that.

Did you ever have any reservations about getting into the porn industry?
Yeah, I definitely did. I didn’t think that women in porn were being inherently abused by being in the industry. But I’d seen the belly of the beast exposed. There is a lot of desensitization that has to happen. You have to watch a lot of porn to write porn. It’s a very competitive industry, in the most boring way. Everyone is copying each other and how people one up each other is by being more extreme.

Ever have any strange moments at your old job?
I remember my first day working in the mainstream porn industry, I did a training session. Then I proceeded to sit down with my supervisor, whose desk was in the editing area. And I just remember seeing a close up shot of deep-dick penetration. And I just had to stand there and be like “Okay, I’m really, totally comfortable!”

So you in your current job as curator, you wake up in the morning, and then what?
Well, I wake up, and I work from home. I usually work in my pajamas.

Ha, very sexy. 
I know! I have a look at what has been submitted to me. A lot of my job is reviewing the real sex that people have in their everyday lives. Most of it is actually corresponding with those people. The really cool thing about my work is that I pretty much have a one-on-one correspondence with every single Make Love Not Porn star on our site.

What kinds of things do you go back and forth about?
At first it will be helping people contextualize their submissions. I have some criteria for curation. One of the things is that the video has to be contextualized. So aside from being consensual and cliché free, you have to shoot an intro video especially if people are new to the site. I ask people to talk to the camera, explaining why they decided to share their real world sex.

What else?
I also ask people to really pull the camera back. I’m totally not against close-ups, but porn is very, very into close-ups. Even when people have decided to do it, a lot of the people on our site have never filmed themselves having sex before, let alone thought of sharing it online. So I consider myself a little bit of a hand holder, a bit of a coach.

How do you decide what kind of themes you’re looking for?
They emerge organically out of the content that we get. We’re developing a new vocabulary around sex, because so much of how we speak is a construct of porn. So we actually recently introduced our “Lick Job” tag, which is our tag for videos of cunnilingus.

We got this video from this amazing 20 year old…she’s a beautiful, sexy young woman. And so she shot a video of herself masturbating in a hammock in her backyard.

Very nice.
We have a lot of people who film videos outside. We just got our first underwater video. It’s very exciting.

Woah!
And then, we have this lovely Mexican couple who have been on our website for a while now. They’re amazing, their page is called We Made Love and Lasagna. They recently went on an amazing vacation where they shot themselves having sex against the backdrop of the mountain valley. The view is incredible.

Sounds exotic.
But we also have a lot of in-the-kitchen sex videos — people on kitchen counters and stuff like that which is really fun.

So you’re staring at people’s junk all day: do you ever feel desensitized to any of it?
Working for Make Love Not Porn and curating the videos has actually re-sensitized me. We had a viewing with some of our team members, and a guy there said “Wow, when I watch porn I want to jerk off. Watching real world sex makes me want to have sex with my girlfriend.”

How do you think your job has influenced your own sex life?
Hmm. It’s made me realize the value of using sex videos as foreplay. Even though I wrote porn a lot, I was not super familiar with it before going in. And now, I kind of can’t even watch it because it’s so fake.


Head over to Maxim to check out the original article! Can’t get enough? Follow Madam Curator on Twitter!


If They Build It, Will We Come? Meet The Tech Entrepreneurs Trying To Take Back The Porn Industry / Buzzfeed

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Written by Charlie Warzel for Buzzfeed. Originally published on September 24th, 2015.


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Cindy Gallop has a lot of lines. Here’s one of them: “I’m in the Steve Jobs reality-distortion business.” Her line, like many things Gallop says, is both immediately catchy and mildly perplexing; at first it makes decent sense but upon further inspection seems like it could be nonsense. Or maybe it’s the other way around? The same can be said of Gallop’s current fixation (and the reason for my visit to her eccentric, all-black, modeled-after-a-Shanghai-nightclub apartment): She wants to move porn out from the shadows as a vice industry, alter the way we talk about, think about, and share stories about our most private intimate relationships and, while she’s at it, essentially transform the future of adult entertainment.

That’s a monstrously tall order. But for Gallop it’s personal. Gallop is 55 but now only dates men in their twenties, a policy that has led her to believe that bad sex education combined with unlimited access to free porn has turned millennials into less than tender and attentive lovers. Her solution: Since porn has become a stand-in for sex education for most younger men, Gallop created MakeLoveNotPorn.com, which is essentially a PSA site to dispel myths about the adult industry. The More You Know, but for true facts about facials.

The site’s popularity quickly prompted a spin-off called MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, a pay site that features non-porn types filming themselves having sex with real partners and flings. The goal: to illustrate the varied landscape of real-world sex, which Gallop and her team define as fun, silly, embarrassing, messy, and markedly different from the deadly serious sex you’ll find on your average tube site.

“Imagine the sexual equivalent of’ ‘Charlie Bit My Finger,”’ she beams. Most, if not all, contributors on the site are paying members who film their scenes themselves, but Gallop believes there’s a way — through safe-for-work couple “intro videos” — to engineer virality that might get people to shell out the cash to watch the full scene. These “MakeLoveNotPornStars,” as Gallop calls them, lack the extreme proportions, fitness levels, tans, and natural gifts of most traditional porn stars. It’s a wholly different representation of sexuality that draws members with the promise of sex that looks familiar. So far MLNP has brought in 881 submissions, resulting in 333 videos on the site and 100 unique “MakeLoveNotPornstars” (mostly average Joes) and has roughly 350,000 members, according to Gallop.

Gallop hopes that real-world sex in the adult entertainment world will lead to viewers having a healthier relationship with porn. But there are limits to this altruism; there’s also, according to Gallop, substantial money to be made in sex-related startups and porn that makes you feel good about watching people being sexual. Gallop likes to recite the Silicon Valley mantra that the biggest problems deliver the biggest returns, and sees plenty of problems (an unhealthy cultural relationship with sex) and billions of potential users (people who, uh, like sex). And destigmatizing porn would ultimately mean drastically widening the pool of investors willing to back “sex tech,” which Gallop defines as “technology-driven ventures, designed to enhance, innovate, and disrupt every area of human sexuality and human sexual experience.”

“If [Silicon Valley] chose to actively focus on adult and sex as an area of investment, oh my god, the opportunities,” she says, rearing back into her couch with excitement. On the surface, the worlds of porn and tech seem uniquely suited to each other; the adult world needs the money, while venture capitalists, who often self-describe as risk takers, have a potentially massive audience in porn consumers and, consequently, billions to be made (the adult industry alone has been said to be valued at $87 billion in 2015). But even with erotica having its zeitgeist moment (50 Shades, etc.), Gallop struggles. “High-profile VC firms can’t bounce my investor profile back fast enough,” she sighs. “You’d be amazed how many fucks are given when it comes to sex tech.”

At an event Q&A this winter, Gallop confronted PayPal founder and infamous investor Peter Thiel — who recently led an investment in a marijuana tech company — to ask if he thought startups focusing on sex tech, or the future of sex, were as untouchable as the rest of Silicon Valley. Thiel stepped around the question with a sterile non-answer. And for the past nine months Gallop has struggled to bring angel investors on board to fund MLNP.tv. “It goes like this: I meet with somebody who’s interested and captivated by the idea. We have a great conversation, and then talk to spouse or a friend who will say, ‘What the fuck?!’ and all of a sudden the dialogue just disappears,” Gallop says.


Head over to Buzzfeed to check out the rest of this article and learn more about the entrepreneurs innovating the porn industry and #sextech!


Why Watching #Realworldsex Videos Is Good For Your Relationship / BUSTLE

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Written by Madam Curator, Sarah Beall for BUSTLE. Originally published on September 30th, 2015.


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As a human with a wifi connection, it’s probably not news to you that porn and the internet are BFFs. Type in an innocuous word like, “pony,” alongside another fun word like, “play,” and all of a sudden you’re no longer designing invites for your niece’s fifth birthday party — you’re receiving an invitation to an all-out brony orgy. Now, you may not mind the invitation at all (You do you, bronies) but the timing’s definitely a bit off, and well, what was up with that sad looking pink brony in the corner? Was he really enjoying himself? Maybe you’ll give him extra butterfly friends on the invite to cheer him up.

The desire to watch fellow creatures getting it on has existed since at least the time when cave people introduced the fine art of sexy cave drawing, and definitely before any rumor started about a Kylie Jenner and Tyga sex tape.

As the curator and community manager for MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, a site that hosts pre-screened videos of non-performative, consensual, contextualized, creative, and porn cliche-free #realworldsex, I see this natural human curiosity play out in real time every day and I’m here to tell you there’s plenty of deliciousness out there!

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Aside from the fact that I’m paid to watch people’s uncensored sexy times all day — Hi, mom! — one of the most rewarding and initially unexpected pleasures my chosen career has brought me has been learning how valuable it can be for couples (and singles) to have access to videos that show real people having the sex they have in their everyday lives. At a private screening before MLNP.tv went live, a man in attendance who had just finished watching a video by one of our MakeLoveNotPornStars said, “When I watch porn, I want to jerk off. When I watch #realworldsex I want to have sex with my girlfriend.”

How cool is that? A video of two regular people having sex had turned this guy on, and instead of making him want to go furtively rub one out, it made him want to share pleasure with another human being. That, plus he didn’t have to experience what I like to call a “porn hangover,” where once he’d had his orgasm, he suddenly experienced a rush of sexual shame followed by concerns about what he’d just watched. Were the actors in the scene consenting and properly paid? Was it ethically produced? Was that screaming orgasm in the middle real? Did it matter to him that the orgasm was probably fake? Was there something wrong with him?

MakeLoveNotPorn is pro-sex, pro-porn, and pro-knowing the difference. At MLNP, we believe that #realworldsex is the hottest sex there is and that there’s nothing amateur about it. We want people to understand the differences between #pornworldsex and #realworldsex because we’ve intimately experienced the confusion and disappointment that can occur when you don’t. That said, shaming people for watching and enjoying porn is so not on the menu and the example above could just as easily feature a woman or a person of another gender. We’ve created a space online to celebrate an entirely new category of sex video — the #realworldsex video — and we’re thrilled to report that people from all over the world are checking it out!

What my role as Madam Curator has taught me is that regardless of gender, sexuality, age, ethnicity or relationship status, watching #realworldsex is great for your sex life. So long as you talk about it first, and everyone is consenting every time, exploring the age old art of titillation by sex video is something that can be fun, hot, and very likely to translate into better sex IRL. So, here is exactly how watching #realworldsex will improve your sex life.

1. It Helps You Get Fully In The Mood

Even if the thought of having sex is super appealing in theory, your body (and brain) might sometimes still need a bit of extra help getting fully turned on. According to The New York Times, researchers in the field of sexuality are currently all about the concept of responsive desire — the idea that women in particular experience, “arousal first, then desire.” Feeling like you could be down-to-clown-around but not ready to rip off your clothes and swing around your bedpost, like in some kind of Beyoncé-at-home fantasy? Treating yourself and your partner to a bit of visual foreplay by watching a #realworldsex video will rev up your desire and increase your physical arousal — both things that will lead to better orgasms.

2. It Stimulates Communication

There’s nothing quite like having a visual example right in front of you to help communicate what you currently like in bed, what you’d like to explore, and even what you don’t like, too. For example, watching a real couple have romantic anal sex (it exists!) might turn you on but that doesn’t mean it’s on the agenda for date night. Avoid the trap of thinking that enjoying seeing someone else do something sexually means you’ve sworn a blood oath to try it yourself, and instead use it as an opportunity to say to your partner, “They seems to be really loving that! Not sure it’s for me right now but maybe I wouldn’t mind you using a finger or tongue there, etc, etc.”


Head on over to BUSTLE to read 5 more reasons why watching #realworldsex videos is great for your relationship! As if you didn’t already know ;)


Make Rickat Love Not Porn

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Here at MLNP.tv, we know we’ll never be able to thank our MLNPstars enough for the integral role they play in helping us create a space online to celebrate non-performative, porn-cliche free #realworld sex in all its messy, awkward, awesome humanness.

By sharing intimate, uncensored moments of human connection and pleasure from their #realworldsex lives, they help motivate open and honest conversations about the difference between #pornworldsex and #realworldsex in both the virtual world and IRL.

This week’s edition, MakeRickatLoveNotPorn, showcases a #realworldcouple who exemplify the kind of change, creativity, and damn good #realworldsex that can result when online and offline worlds collide. Featured in a mini documentary for Bustle, we’re so excited to see them tell the story of how they came to MLNP.tv.

First introduced to MLNP and its mission when they attended the NYC Porn Film Festival, Rickat had the unique experience of being able to hear Cindy speak about MLNP.tv’s mission, listen to myself and Assistant Curator Ariel Martinez talk about our curation process, and watch a variety of videos from our MLNPstars, including both intro videos and full-on #realworldsex videos. The reaction from the NYC PFF audience was better than we could have hoped for, with every single video we screened receiving a round of applause. We were elated and hoped that we’d inspired some future MLNPstars to get filming!

Enter Rickat.

Compelled by what they saw and heard, this creative married couple sprung into action, making more time to make love, while also filming their #realworldsex with multiple cameras to capture as much of the experience as possible. In a fever of inspiration, Kat taught herself how to edit video, and by the time she and Rick submitted their first #realworldsex masterpiece to MLNP.tv, they had experienced what she describes as a “sexplosion” in their marriage. As Rickat continued to film themselves, they wrote to us about how they were “creating a modern day Kama Sutra,” with Kat saying:

I don’t think I can ever watch porn again with the same mindless hunger for satisfaction. I want more out of it now. I want passion. I want beauty. I want love. And you know where it is? Right here on MLNP. I am really grateful for the chain of events that led us to the NYC Porn Film Festival and MLNP. We were inspired to inspire in return. And if that’s not art then I don’t know what is.

You can’t make up stuff this good.

As ever, we’re overjoyed to hear what a positive, often transformative, effect sharing their #realworldsex has had on our MLNPstars and we’re so grateful to Rickat for sharing these most intimate moments with our community!

Cinematic, sensual, and overflowing with passion, Rickat’s videos build to an explosive eroticism that I can’t wait for you to experience:

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When Rickat decided to film their very first #realworldsex video for MLNP.tv, they ran into an unexpected surprise in the form of Kat’s period. Thankfully, that didn’t stop them from getting it on, because, why should it? With Kat decked out in lingerie, a mask and pearls, and Rick au natural save for his many tattoos, these creative marrieds make a stunningly cinematic debut. Navigating each other’s bodies with the ease and confidence that comes from years of sexploration, you can definitely see how hot these two are for each other! All of that on top of some impressive editing and a clever use of mirrors makes this a thrilling introduction that you don’t want to miss out on.


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In their second stunningly cinematic video for MLNP, MLNPstars Rickat heated things up in the kitchen! With a palpable passion for each other and a love of film editing, the result of this duo capturing their #realworldsex is really striking. Starting off in the kitchen with some hot #backdoor action, #toytime and sultry lingerie, this video packs a punch throughout the whole 37 minutes.


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As Kat so beautifully and simply puts it, “I want passion. I want beauty. I want love. And you know where it is? Right here on MLNP.” Rickat’s videos have been like a river of passion, beauty and love running into MLNP.tv’s already stirring collection of everyday awesome #realworldsex. Their third hour long (!) glowing sepia video features hot #downtown time, #backdoor exploration and lots of YES!YES!YES! If you want to see a very much in love married couple with an artistic eye who appreciates the value of lube, look no further.


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This gorgeously shot romp in the bedroom was able to happen while the kids were at school, giving Rick and Kat an opportunity to get it on. With their signature camera rigging skills, undeniable chemistry and fondness for kinky lingerie (and masks), you won’t be able to keep your eyes off of these two as they explore some new toys together!


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In the conclusion to “Kat’s Toys”, Rickat employ their signature ceiling rig and go to town on each other. With an expert knowledge of each other’s bodies and a passion to match, they both tease each other until they simply can’t take it anymore.


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Rickat, just love it when Kat’s ladyparts are on the menu. In this video, not only do we get to watch Kat get LickJobs over and over again, we also get to watch them from above thanks to Rickat’s signature DIY rigging skills! Featuring never before seen moments from previous videos, as well as a a few teasers from an upcoming one, this video zones right in on slow, sensual, and wildly orgasmic LickJobs – an essential move in Rickat’s modern day Kama Sutra!

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